The bigger question to be addressed is this. Can the USA change course and placing the emphasis on technique, or will it be more of the same robust, but ultimately uninspiring football, come the next Women's World Cup?" Ouch! More on women's soccer after the World Cup...Enjoy the weekend of games, we will!
Thursday, October 4, 2007
Women's World Cup Final
The bigger question to be addressed is this. Can the USA change course and placing the emphasis on technique, or will it be more of the same robust, but ultimately uninspiring football, come the next Women's World Cup?" Ouch! More on women's soccer after the World Cup...Enjoy the weekend of games, we will!
Friday, September 21, 2007
The Game of the Year is Here
Anybody remember the theory of transitivity? It goes something like this:
Given:A>B and B>C
Therefore:A>C
Remember?Ok, how about this one:
Given:Air Force beat Utah, Utah beat UCLA, UCLA beat BYU.
Therefore:Air Force beats BYU this weekend
Isn't that simple?
I can't believe that this is only being broadcast by the Mountain - I can't watch it, but I'll be listening to a radio broadcast over the internet. It will be interesting to see (hear) how BYU responds after losing two-in-a-row, especially that stinger loss to Tulsa. Who? Yup, Tulsa.
In other football action:Wyoming heads to Ohio for a showdown of the Wyo folks vs the Ohio folks. Remember last year in the NCAA basketball tournament how Bryan touted his Ohio teams over BYU? Well now he's coming directly after you Big Grandpa.
Two days left to the Showdown in Provo. BYU fans, are you "fully invested?"
In the words of Adayla, "Go Air Force!"
Thursday, September 20, 2007
Women's World Cup - Pre and Post Game Report
Hey there football fans (ok, soccer fans for you Americans),In case you're watching TV tomorrow morning (Tuesday morning, ESPN, 6 am mountain time), we (Morgs, Josie, Adayla, Tally and I) are all going to the Team USA vs Nigeria World Cup Soccer game here in Shanghai. If the US wins tomorrow, they will advance out of group play, if they tie or lose they'll need help from the Korea-Sweden game.The camera is across the stadium from where we'll be sitting, and since our tickets are in the sixth row near midfield, there will be times that we'll be on TV. On the camera view, we'll be just to the left of of midfield, next to where you can see the entrance/exit doors at midfield.At any rate, just wanted to let you know, in case you were watching between 6-8 am tomorrow, where you should look to see us!U-S-A, U-S-A!The Shanghai Daily reported the following in their newspaper this morning:
The following is a notice released by Shanghai Flood Control Headquarters today.* Pay attention to weather information and confine your activities mainly indoors.
If fact, the school where Josie is teaching has cancelled school for tomorrow. So what are we doing with the impending typhoon? Hint: It's not confining our activities to mainly indoors. We're still going to watch World Cup Soccer with Team USA vs Nigeria this evening.
Lucky?
The game in Shanghai tomorrow evening has been moved to the city of Hangzhou 100 km away the following evening. I guess we are lucky they are allowing us to still watch our game in Shanghai in the torrential rain!
I was so happy that I was able to swing tickets near midfield in the sixth row. But now those seats we had for the Germany-Argentina game are looking better. For that game we bought scalped tickets on the way into the game that were six rows from the top of the stadium. The advantage of those is that the stadium is a partially covered stadium, where the field is open, but the seats are generally covered. Our great seats close to the field will not benefit from the cover above. So the expensive seats get wet while the cheap seats stay dry how's that for irony?
Sorry about the blurry picture, I just think they looked so cute in their little ponchos!
Fair Weather Fans:
Even though the game was sold out (30,000 seats), we found that most people decided to not watch the game in rain. The announced attendance for the game was 6,000, compared to the 28,000+ that were at the Germany-Argentina game we went to. We're not fair weather fans, no, we rejected the warnings to stay at home figuring if they are still going to play the game, it can't be that bad, right?
As we started to walk down to our great seats there on the sixth row, we saw that nobody was sitting in the rain. We saw some seats in the 17th row that were under the overhang of the stadium and so the seats were still dry. We figured we would sit there until somebody kicked us out (you can see our best friend, the overhang, in the first picture of Josie & Adayla).
After we sat down, there were three guys sitting in front of us that turned around to ask us in where we were from. After a couple of minutes, we found out that there were Air Force Academy cadets in their senior years, doing a semester exchange at the university in Nanjing (a small city of only 6 million, a 1 ½ hour train ride away). When I told them I was an Academy grad, still on active duty they couldn't believe it!We also found out that two of the three cadets were returned missionaries that served in Taiwan. It was funny to see their confused faces when I told them I served my mission in Germany, what are you doing in China they asked! What the heck, at least Josie now has some connections of single adults that perhaps she can go hang out with for a while. I included a picture of Tally and me with them - Tally is wearing an Air Force Academy shirt!
Oh yeah, the game. The US won 1-0 and now advances out of group play. The only goal of the game happened in the first minute of the game with the extra time we needed because of the rain, we missed the goal. Say what you want, but I prefer the 11-0 scoring fest of the Germany-Argentina game over a 1-0 struggle, but at least you can't call me a fair weather fan! The third picture I included is of the game, but of particular interest is if you look at the seats in the stadium. Besides the fact that they're empty, you'll see military guys sitting in the second row - at attention with their hands on their laps. These folks are there for crowd/riot control. It was a good thing they were there, if not, the attendance would have only been 3,000!Tuesday, September 18, 2007
Update - with a few random pictures
Tim had his first weekend of classes, I will let him fill you in on that.
Adayla on the other hand wanted to take a nap at school on Tuesday with the other kids. We told her that next time she could. So on Thursday, she stayed the entire day at school. She took a nap like the other kids and finished her lunch after her nap. When she is hungry she will eat. She will tell you, I like my school. She also has started singing her Chinese songs. It is quite cute. They also play some kind of train game where they all hold on to each other and say, “Katzi”. She comes home and grabs Tally and tries to get her to play.
Josie is continuing to adjust. She is quite venturesome, now all we need to find her is some more friends. I mean Tim, I, and the girls are fun, but I think she needs some cool people to hang out with. She started Chinese with our tutor for a ½ hour at a time. Just a bit of understanding of the language makes a big difference.
Beware of the mosquitos in China, poor Tally is highly allergic to them. She gets one and it looks
Adayla is my little mess maker, I know when it is quiet, I am in trouble.
The other day, I used the bathroom and noticed the seat seemed to be a bit
wet. I then washed my hands and when I picked up the towel to dry them, the towel was soaking wet. Adayla,why is the towel wet? I put it in the toilet. This morning, mom I helped you do laundry. I put stuff in the washer and the dryer. Ok thanks! Later I washed some sheets, when I put them in the washer I noticed a
scoop of soap already in there. Oh well, and started the washer. When I went to put the sheets in the dryer I noticed more than just a scoop in the dryer. She had dumped an entire container of oxy clean in there along with quite a few scoops of tide. I think I yelled a little bit then. She truly just wants to help and I need to remember that. She is quick to help me clean up or cook. They are growing up and getting big too fast. I won't let them ever to big to let me hold them as they sit on my lap!
I have decided that Tim, no matter how busy he is, he will always make time for keeping up on college football. He is in full swing these days. Here are some of his latest reports, for those who don't quite keep up.
What a WAC-ky week. Here's what we learned:Utah isn't a bad as everyone thoughtBYU isn't as good as everyone thoughtAnd nobody knows what to think of Air ForceAs much as the Mountain West tries to paint itself as the best non-BCS conference, this week proved otherwise:MWC vs WAC teams: 0-2 - Boise State beat Wyo, Hawaii beat UNLVMWC vs former WAC team: 0-1 - Tulsa over BYUThe conference has only one win over a ranked opponent this year.Starting with this week's stars: Utah, can you say WOW!Talk about adversity, the Utes started the season 0-2, and lost five of its top players to long-term injuries. But the Utes were able to put this all aside and execute a perfect game to blow out the #11 UCLA Bruins, the same UCLA team that beat BYU last week.Runner up for this week's stars: Air ForceAFA's win over TCU has already been discussed. They are definitely the surprise team thus far in the season.Wyo @ Boise State - kind of expected this (reference below) with Boise State coming off a loss at Washington. Despite the loss, it looks like Wyo will still have a significant impact on the conference this year.This week's disappointment: BYU With lowly New Mexico beating Arizona this week and Utah thumping UCLA, BYU's only win over Arizona looks weaker and their loss to UCLA, while a good showing, also looks weaker. But this loss to Tulsa is going to hurt for a long time. BYU needs to figure out how it allowed Tulsa to light up the scoreboard. I think ESPN must be embarrassed for naming BYU's defense one of the top 10 defenses in college football.This week's biggest disappointment: the Oklahoma relatives That one BYU alum and one former BYU student, both living in Oklahoma, had nothing to say about their team being in Oklahoma. I'm sure the many people from the stake went to the football game - Brigham & Shayla, where are you?
The week ahead:Air Force @ BYU - always the game of the year!Wyoming @ Ohio (C & B, who's going to win this one?)#3 Oklahoma @ Tulsa - will be interesting to see how bad BYU's loss really isA preview on those games will come later this week, along with a proof of the theory of transitivity...Have a great week college football fans!
Josie, the girls, and I have found some time to make it to the local markets. Josie has learned to bargain and I like practicing my Chinese. It is fun to relax and have a good time. She has bought a new coat, a back pack, a new purse, a few watches, and several pair of sunglasses. I am finding that there are plenty of shoes here, if you
Tuesday night, we head to watch the Americans in the World Cup play Nigeria. It should be lots of fun, we'll post later!
Women's World Cup Opening Game / Ceremony
Tim and Josie went to the Women's World Cup opening ceremony and 1st game. Here is the report with pictures.
Josie finally figured out that they were going to some of the games, she was quite excited. We went to the opening game this evening - defending World Cup champs Germany vs Argentina. What a blowout: 11-0! It was actually enjoyable to watch because the goals were pretty. Germany just destroyed them. It was a fun atmosphere with 28,098 people there, and lots of Germans! The German fans were having a ton of fun, and rightfully so.I've attached some pictures from this evening: a picture of Josie on the metro to the game (look how squished she is with all the people) a pic of Josie outside of the stadium and one of me in my Universitaet Goettingen shirt - it was the only thing German that I have here! The one of me is at the end of the game - you can see how many people had left the game already because of the blowout...At any rate, it was a fun evening, we look forward to Sept 18th to see the American women in action!Wednesday, September 5, 2007
FIFA World Cup
Shanghai is transforming itself into a soccer town – the 2007 FIFA Women’s World Cup being hosted in China from 10-30 September. Shanghai is the main city for the event, with the opening and championship games being played here as well as other games throughout the tournament. Besides Shanghai, four other cities will host games throughout the tournament.http://www.fifa.com/womenworldcup/index.html
We have already purchased our tickets for September 18th, when Team USA takes on Nigeria in group play here in Shanghai, and for September 30th, when we’ll be treated to a double header of the consolation game and the World Cup championship game.
We’ve included a scan of one of our championship tickets, but we have blocked out any info that may be used to identify our ticket or the seat. Suffice it to say that all of our tickets are close enough to see clearly if Team USA’s Heather Mitts is really soccer’s sexiest player!
Morgan’s sister Josie arrived here in Shanghai last week and is a huge soccer fan. She will be here in Shanghai during the World Cup, but Tim has told her that there’s no way to get tickets as they’ve long been sold out. It will be interesting to see how long it takes from posting this on the blog until she finds out (our guess is that she still won’t know until we go to the game!)
Quick Blurbs!
Tally has been a little grumpy bumb, she is getting her 1 year molars. I saw the first one break through a few days ago. She continues to be a sleepy head. She goes down between 8 and 9 at night and then sleeps until 10 am. Today she went down again at 12 pm and woke up 3 ½ hours later. She would have gone down tonight at 7:30, but since we were out shopping she just threw a few fits. She would throw herself on the ground....yuck.
We know Adayla is picking up on some Chinese! Tim said to her yesterday in Chinese, do you want to start taking a nap while you are at school. She scowled at him and said in English, I don't want to sleep at school.
We continue to work on her letters, she is now working on the lower case letters. She recognizes quite a few. The other day, I was writing random letters on a piece of paper and she was telling me them. Josie came along a few hours later and picked up the paper. I had coincidentally written on one line b s h i t. Good thing she can't ready yet!
Tim has his opening ceremony all day Saturday and will finally start classes next weekend.
Ayis aren't all they are cracked up to be, but we just can't seem to get motivated enough to fire her and find a new one.
Josie and I made homemade tortillas for dinner Sunday! If anyone has a good recipe (or two or three) please pass it along. I am definitely learning to cook a few things over here.
New shoes....
Jerk.....
Josie's in town!
We have a good times together. Josie quickly interviewed with some places and started a job on Monday teaching English to preschoolers at a Korean school. So she gets quite the mix of food. Korean for lunch and Chinese for dinner....her tummy might catch up with her one of these days! She is adjusting to life here in Shanghai and is learning you can get around without speaking Chinese, but some days are rough.....
To get to school she takes the subway 2 stops and then has been taking a taxi from the station to her school. She only has a card with the address on it and then she shows the taxi driver. She has done this before and seems to get there. Today the driver took a different route and she was a bit confused as to where she was. They were driving up and down the streets and couldn't find her school. The driver starts to get mad and starts yelling at her in Chinese. She tried calling her boss, but she didn't answer her cell phone. He keeps yelling at her, she doesn't understand a bit, and then starts to cry. I think he felt a bit bad then, but was still mad. They finally arrive at the school and her boss asks her why she is so upset. Josie explains and so they worked out that her boss' driver will be picking her up from the subway station. So a few moments of misery will save her a few bucks a day...good job.
Monday, August 27, 2007
MBA Orientation Weekend
This is probably a good time to talk about my university and my program. I am enrolled at Fudan University here in Shanghai, which is widely regarded as China’s #2 university, second only to Peking University (Beida) in Beijing.
The MBA program that I am enrolled in is a University of Hong Kong (HKU) program that is taught at Fudan in a joint collaboration to unite the two economic capitals of China. I will graduate with an MBA from the University of Hong Kong and will have alumni status with both universities. This HKU MBA is a significant program. It was founded in 2001 with Columbia University in New York and the London Business School. The curriculum is derived from Columbia’s and LBS’s MBA programs, meaning that my textbooks will be in English, but most of the instruction will be in Chinese (the interview for the program was both in Chinese and in English). The Economist this past year ranked this program #39 in its world rankings of MBA programs: http://mba.eiu.com/index.asp?layout=2002rankings. BusinessWeek and the Financial Times will not rank this program until it has been in existence for a certain period of time.
My intention is to say that this is one of the top MBA programs in the world and since this year I am the only non-Chinese person in the program, I will have frequent interaction with 129 of China’s top up-and-coming leaders. It is truly a privilege that I cherish.
Fortunately for me, my roommate was a person that I had met in early-July when I went to a Karaoke bar with a group of MBA students after registration day (see past blog entries for that experience). His Chinese name is Tony and lived in California for a couple of years when he worked for Intel. His English is very good and he kept me going in the right direction the entire weekend! I was happy with how much Chinese I know – I was very comfortable in casual conversations, but once the program directors shouted out directions for the various tasks/competitions we had throughout the weekend, I was lost. Tony and others were very helpful were very helpful by either telling me in Chinese that I understood or telling me in English. So it worked out just fine.
The one picture here is a picture of my friend Eric and me. Eric is a great guy, I mean a great guy. We met back in April at the MBA interview – we were in the same interview group for the English portion and we just hit it off. Since then we’ve kept in touch and have formed a good friendship. Fortunately we both made it into the program! He just became a daddy himself to a little girl – Morgan and I will have to have his family over for dinner soon.
Throughout the weekend there was a lot of socializing time where I was able to talk to a heck of a lot of my classmates (and mostly in Chinese!). Everybody seemed very excited to have an American Air Force pilot in the program with them. Perhaps the most fun I had during the weekend was when my team got together on Saturday evening to play cards – we played a game called “Assassin” which they told me was wildly popular in China. We played from 10:30 until 2:30 in the morning. It is less of a card game and more of a social game – cards are only used to assign roles: 2 assassins, 2 policemen, 1 judge and the rest are citizens. After the judge oversees the game and allows the assassins to kill one person each round and allows the cops to secretly guess one time each round who the assassin is. Then during the round people accuse each other of being the assassin and at the end of the round the living people vote off the person they think most likely is the assassin. The game goes until the assassins kill everybody else or they are caught. At any rate, it was a blast with lots of fun discussion – especially fun is at the end of the game when everybody then criticizes each other for what they should have done. It’s a riot! And it was also nice to be able to hear everybody talk, I picked up on so much and could just feel the rhythm or their speech and the structure of their sentences. At any rate, in the eight rounds that we played over four hours, I was the assassin five times in a row and a cop twice (definitely breaking the odds). The first time I was the assassin I got caught in the last round only because my chair squeaked when I selected my target, but then the next game I or my partner and I won. No other assassins who played won, so I then developed this mystique that the American military guy is a great assassin. The next day I had people come up to me from other teams and tell me they heard about how good I was at playing assassin!! Oh how fun, it really was.
Classes start on September 14th, so I still have a little bit of time left before I have to really start working. I’m looking forward to working with a great group of people!
Tim
Monday, August 20, 2007
Hangzhou Trip
Quick side note...I love ice!!! I have always loved a good ice water, but I forgot how much I really love it. You see here in China not only do they not use ice, but they actually prefer their water warm. So I have just become somewhat accustomed to have warm water, I don't like it, but it is all that they have. Anyways, I finally found some ice cube trays and just finished the best glass of ice water ever!!! Just needed to say that.
So Hangzhou....we decided to only go to Hangzhou as the mountains were supposed to have lots of rain. So we left Tuesday morning and headed to the Shanghai train station. First of all the train station was amazing, it must be fairly new. We found the ticket counter, only to be told that the train we showed up for was already sold out. The next one didn't leave for 2 ½ hours, so we bought the tickets and found a place to eat lunch.
The girls played and then Adayla needed to go to the bathroom. We are thinking "couldn't be that bad" as this facility seemed very nice.
Tim took some pictures, I don't need to say anything else. I will let you know that people don't flush toilet paper and this is the men's bathroom......
Anyways, we loaded the train that was quite nice and headed towards Hangzhou. The fast train is only 1 ½ hours direct. We can handle anything for 1 ½ hours. Hangzhou is a “small” Chinese city of “only” 2.5 million people (it would be tied for third largest in the U.S. with Chicago). Hangzhou is known for its beautiful scenery (lake, trees, mountains, etc) and beautiful women! Hangzhou served as the capital city of the Song Dynasty during the 12th and 13th centuries, when the emperors ordered that China's most beautiful women be brought to Hangzhou – centuries later those genes are still in the city! When Marco Polo visited Hangzhou during the 13th century, he remarked that “Hangzhou is the most splendid city in the world.”
The only not as fun part is that there are lots of Chinese tourists there and therefore we become an attraction, again.
The next morning we walked around a different part of the lake and took a boat tour on a hand crafted wood boat.
The tour guide rows you around the entire lake. Quite different views than we had seen before. Thankfully it was a bit overcast and so it wasn't as hot as it was the next day. Tally loved the boat, she just wanted to only hang out the side. Her parents thought this wasn't a good idea and so she screamed for a good 20 minutes until we got off the boat. The tour was round trip with a stop at little store for shopping, we happily declined the return trip and continued around the lake.
This was early on in the trip, we have pics of Tally's grumpy moment, but we will keep that to ourselves.
Eventually we came to a big Pagoda right on the lake. We were able to go all the way to the top (it had recently been reconstructed and they added some elevators!) The top had amazing views of the lake, we loved this peaceful place.
My friend took me shopping that evening and took me to where I could buy a cake for Morgan's birthday! There were no birthday cakes, per se, so I bought the next best thing – a cheese cake. It was a beauty. We brought it back and surprised Morgan with it. We sang “Zhu ni sheng ri kuai le” and Morgan blew out the candles with the girls' help. Like so many desserts in China, it looked so good, but they forgot to add the sugar! It was good, but was much better the next evening when we thought of putting Nutella on the cheesecake – Mmmm! That was Morgan's first of THREE birthdays here in China as this fantasy assignment comes to an end in September of 2009.
The next morning we headed to an ancient Buddhist Temple. The grounds were again amazing. And the inside was interesting to say the very least.... We then headed back for another quick nap for the girls (see how our lives revolve around the naps), but that is just our life. We packed up, thanked our friends, and headed for the train station. We arrived with about 30 minutes to spare. We lugged all our stuff up the stairs and showed our tickets to some folks to find out where we needed to go. They started laughing at us. We had gone to the wrong train station. The other one was far away and there was no chance of making it. We would have arrived in Shanghai at 8 pm and decided that the later train was not an option. We called our friends to say we would be heading back to their place for the night. This is what we will now refer to as the Hangzhou curse. We are not as cursed as them or we would have made at least one visit to the emergency room. Tally's big mosquito bite that swelled half of her entire face was just her body reacting to the bite and after two days her face returned to normal. What the heck, we enjoyed another night with them. We made it back on the 11 am train and arrived home just in time for afternoon naps, this time for the entire family. Tim was also still able to squeeze in his now weekly massage.
That catches us up, we are off to bed!
Monday, August 13, 2007
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Today....really!
Jane, our Chinese tutor, came today. I don't think I have said how fantastic she is, Tim and I both think she is great. Next time, I will have to post a picture of Jane the Tutor. We are so lucky/blessed to have found her. She speaks great English and her Chinese is decent (haha...she is Chinese). She motivates Tim to study and he continues to improve. The girls like her and she is just quite pleasant. I spend part of my time talking about Chinese culture, which is also helpful in understanding things here. She comes to our house twice a week, but we are thinking of having her come 3 times a week. This Friday we are going to take her swimming at our pool. Swimming for the Chinese is very expensive and so many Chinese have never even gone before. She is going to go shopping with us next week as well, it should be good times. We are just trying to convince her to not get a real job and just be our tutor! Seriously, things really seem to be just falling into place here in China and we are so grateful.
Adayla went to preschool and happily went in on her own. Sometimes she has a bit of a struggle, but I think it is mainly because the other kids are crying or have their grandparents with them. She loves it and still speaks mostly in English, but will respond as her teachers are speaking Chinese to her.
Tally is continuing to speak more and more, she is doing quite well at imitating words. She will say Ayi, Ayi! It is quite cute. Yesterday we went over to some friends from church who had a dog and Tally cried when it came near her. This little thing was all of 5 pounds, but it made me sad that she has already forgotten Binx. (Don't worry Binx, Adayla hasn't!)
One American living here in Shanghai told us this story and I see myself telling it a few years down the road about Tally. His little boy was at the table with some of his cousins back in the states and they were talking about their favorite foods. One kid was like, I love pizza. Another kid says, chicken nuggets are my favorite food and his boy chimes in, I like rice! Tally loves rice! Tonight at dinner she saw the rice and started going berserk.
This evening was the first time we let Ayi cook since the day of poisoning at Taco Bell Grande. Her food is yummy! We don't even bother to go try to eat Chinese food. It is impossible to just go and order off the menu. It just isn't good. We tried this on Friday night, we thought surely we can find something tasty....yeah right. We found a little place a few blocks away that brought a fondue bowl out filled with food. We saw something that looked good on another table and said we will take what they are having. They brought it out and we thought the meat looked “interesting” and found out we had just ordered frog. Tim said it tastes like chicken, but I didn't see him eat more than one piece and I didn't dare try it. We also ordered a shrimp pot and so we were able to eat a little bit, but mostly we will be dining within the walls of our own home.
A few more quickies about some things in China. A few weeks ago and I thought I need a haircut. There are a few places outside our complex and I thought I would try one. I go in, decide on the 80RMB stylist (prices vary by experience) and I went with the more expensive one. He was about $3 more than the other. I am thinking this will take 30 minutes to an hour. Ha! Two and a half hours later I left with a nice looking haircut. They washed and massaged my head, cut my hair, massaged my back, arms, hands, and neck, and then blow dried each hair (individually)! So when you come visit us in China, come needing a hair cut! It is a little more than $10 to have the whole experience!
Speaking of massage, Tim FINALLY made it there after almost 2 months here. I told him he can go once a week if he'd like, but he just hadn't gotten around to it. I am thinking he will be getting there nearly every week now! An hour massage is about $9.00. We just had to make sure it was a legitimate massage place....it was and he came home feeling pretty good.
As for our Saturday, it was another one of my “adventures”. Tim keeps agreeing to go, maybe one day he will learn. There are so many places to explore and I decided we would go to a flower and bird market that also sold artwork and furniture. We have to plan around naps and so decided not to go until late afternoon. As we packed up, Tim looks at the window and says it looks like a big storm is coming. I don't worry about these kind of things and say lets go. We took the metro there and when we exited the station it was POURING. And as Tim is saying “I told you so” he insists that we start walking to the market. Thankfully we did have two umbrellas, but they didn't do much good as I was also trying to push the stroller. Needless to say, Adayla and I were both soaked. Tim and Tally were somewhat protected under their umbrella, other than his feet. Anyways we arrived wet, but loved this little market! It had all sorts of pet turtles and fish, plants and flowers, and all sorts of things upstairs. Absolutely fascinating! We will head back next week to put in an order for some large plants! Pics later...
Last reason on why we love China for tonight. Our church here is a whole experience in its own. I think I have explained it a bit before, but here it is again in short. You must be a foreign passport holder or a Chinese married to a foreign passport holder. So we literally have people from all over: Germany, Argentina, Singapore, Korea, Japan, Phillipines, the State, etc. Most speak English either very well or just a little bit and so most of the meeting is in English. But many times prayers and during class as we read scriptures, it could very well be in another language. I just love how here we are people from all over the world worshiping Christ and God in the same way. The Spirit that is felt is just such a good feeling.
So until we return from Hangzhou and our first visit out of Shanghai.....
Christmas in Shanghai
The biggest news: WE HAVE OUR STUFF!!! And it is was like Christmas for the girls, except that Adayla knew what she was getting. A few days before we got our stuff, we told Adayla that all her toys were coming. She starting saying what she was going to play with, my red purse, my pink stroller, and my big baby (the smaller baby we brought with us). Tally and Adayla have played and played! It is SO nice they can finally entertain themselves for a few minutes. And we have our cereal!!!!! For those of you that have that care package started and don't know what else to add, I will get you my list really soon of a few things I wish I had brought!
That was all I wrote that day, I Tim and I have started watching movies about once a week after the girls go down. Well, we started the movie and I was going to type a bit during it...didn't happen.
Real reason I haven't posted sooner....
So I was in the middle of catching up here and a bad case of food poisoning hit. We are now mostly recovered and it is only 3 days later. Though it took us a good week to actually get back to where we felt normal again.
Tally, I think, misses Adayla when she is at school. We play, but I know she would rather follow her big sister around. When we go to pick her up, Tally is so happy to have her back.
Last week, Tally had two more bottom teeth break through. She now has 8, 4 on the bottom and 4 on the top. Teeth just make her look like a little girl. But I guess since she doesn't have too much hair, it keeps her my baby! She is so strong willed. When we pray for the girls, we are grateful for their strong minds and we ask that they will continue to have such....I am thinking about quitting doing this. They do have strong minds and therefore like to think of themselves as independent when they feel like. When she decides she wants a toy, she lets Adayla know it. When she is grumpy, there is not much you can do to distract her. When she is mad whether you picked her up and stopped her from going somewhere she planned on or have her next to Adayla in the double stroller and she is not happy about it, she lets you know it. She knows that she can quickly give a good tug to Adayla's hair or mine. She will hit or scratch you, if she can't get to the hair. I know some of this is learned behavior, but I know she doesn't have hair that anybody pulls...she does this all on her own.
Tally learns so much from watching us interact as a family and the things that Adayla does. She knows before we have a meal, we always say a prayer. She happily keeps her arms folded throughout the entire prayer. But the funniest is that she likes to push the on/off button on the TV and she knows that she is not supposed to do it. The next time she did it, I said, Tally you go to timeout. She marched her little self right to the corner and put her nose in it. We tried to control our giggles. She stood there until I counted to ten. Then she came back out and played. I was so amazed that she knew exactly what to do, just by us having timeouts with Adayla. Next time I am going to take a pic!
Obviously she understands quite a bit. Every time she has a stinky diaper, I tell her “stinky” or “hen chou” and she grabs her little nose. We just think she is quite cute!
A few quick funnies:
When you go to a market to go shopping, the store attendants immediately shout at you in English to try to get you into their store. I don't like to just ignore them, but if you show any interest they won't let you go. I usually keep walking and will say, “bu yao, xie xie.” Which means I don't need, thanks. The other day we were with our friends and Tim was push Adayla in the stroller. I had already walked past when Tim came along. They started shouting at him, Adayla says on her own, “Bu yao, xie xie!” We cracked up!
We have mentioned that small kids her in China only have a slit in their pants. It is actually more than a slit, it is a big hole exposing everything. Quite frequently, they like to bring their little kids up to our little kids who are in the stroller. This past weekend, this lady brings her little grandson up to say hi to our girls. There he is looking at our girls, with his parts there for everybody to see. I know this is just life for them, but Adayla is going to start noticing the difference really soon. How am I going to teach these girl modesty when their are bums all over the place???
We had our 2nd set of visitors, another Olmsted family from China. They arrived Friday evening, after riding a fast train, with their 3 kids. Ayi cooked a Chinese dinner complete with homemade dumplings. I was going to help, but we got busy with other things that day. It rained hard both evenings they were here, so we mostly stayed inside and traded stories on how things are going. The older two kids are 11 and 9 and they were so good with Adayla. She loved just hanging out with them and they were very good to play games with her. They have a little guy around Tally's age. They were just happy to have toys.
Back to our weekend....
We headed out Saturday morning to see a bit of Shanghai. We took the ferry across the river and then headed down Nanjing Road over to People's Square where we went to a city planning museum. You can see the pics later. I didn't know how Shanghai really spreads out. (I don't know where else 22 million people would live, but I am in my little bubble of how to get places.) We are going to have to venture out to other places. We saw one sad part about the city...our views in 10 years will be completely gone, all we will have is big buildings to look at. So as long as it is in 5 years and not 2, we are good. But we noticed they just started a second building that will definite block our views :(
We then headed over to Taco Belle Grande to have a fabulous mexican dinner. They had chips, they had salsa, and they had cheese. Life couldn't have gotten better and it is was along 2 metro stops away! Until later that evening which led me to stop blogging and have a 3 day break...and even then we are feeling the best. So no more Taco Belle Grande.... : ( We learned all about la duzi and ou tou....
We had a great time with our Olmsted friends and look forward to a visit in Nanjing...once the days aren't quite so hot!
We were supposed to get our stuff today....we still don't have it. They called late Monday night to say it hadn't cleared customs yet. Bummer! But they called again today and set up for delivery tomorrow....we are keeping our fingers crossed.
I am hoping to improve my cooking skills while here, if not we won't starve to death, but I have the time and there isn't much else to eat other than Chinese food. I actually like it, I have to look hard to find other things to eat, but it gets us eating things outside the box!
Adayla on the other hand is a real concern for her teachers. We feed her breakfast before she goes to school (of course) and then they feed them a snack of cookies. Cookies are what they call them, I would probably call them sugarless and therefore flavorless tummy fillers. Adayla eats them and then the teachers wonder why at 11:00 am she is not hungry for lunch. First is is Chinese food, things that she is not familiar with and because she is not hungry.
I am going to bed now, more later.
Adayla's First Day at School
I got the chance to go with Adayla to her first day of Kindergarten today! It was so much fun to watch her - she's a big girl, especially when I see her wearing her "bei bao" (backpack). Class is from 0800-1145 and includes a snack and a lunch.There are 10 kids in her class with two dedicated teachers and several floating teachers. Today there were only 8 kids in class, and Adayla was the only non-Chinese. Since today was the first day, they asked that one parent stay the entire day to help their child transition. Adayla was the only child without a grandparent there. There were only two parents there as one child had a grandparent and a parent. In China it is customary that the parents give their children to the grandparents to raise so they can go out and work.
Here's the funny for the day: So this young Italian guy comes in to teach the kids English with his heavy Italian accent. The kids are sitting around him and he just starts talking English, no Chinese at all, and says "My name is Julio, what's your name?" He did this to the first three kids and made them all cry. He finally got to Adayla and said "You must speak English, what's your name?" and Adayla told him. He then asked where she was from and she said "America." He then told her "you need to help me teach your friends English, ok?"He then played some silly song that was in English, then he said, "Now we're going to learn the alphabet." He held up a sign that had the letter "A" on it, with a picture of an apple with its name. He told everybody that this was the letter "A" and had the kids repeat it several time, which they did. He then said "A is the first letter of this, do you know what it is?" No response, then he asked Adayla, "Can you tell everybody what this is?" and she firmly responded, "Ping guo" (apple in Chinese). It made all the adults laugh - I was cracking up! A little later he got to the letter "B" and did the same thing with it. There was a picture of a baskeball with the word "ball" written next to it. He asked his English-speaking helper again to tell everybody what it was and she again clearly stated "lan qiu" (basketball in Chinese). Again, everybody laughed - I was dying laughing!He had one more sign, this one for the letter "C." I couldn't wait for this, as it had a picture of a cat and I knew Adayla knew this in Chinese as well. But this guy wised up and just told everybody that "C" was in the word "cat." Oh too bad, I wanted to hear Adayla tell him it was a "mao."
Me again, I like hearing Tim's perspective on things. One of the many great things about this program is that he gets to do many things he normally is just not around for. And the girls are getting quite used to him being around!!
August 4th
August 4th, 2007
How is it August already? Time is going by way too quickly and you would think that I could find time to update this everyday, but..... We are still settling here and waiting for our household goods, hopefully they said this Tuesday!! Ayi will take care of the kids and I will put the things away. It has been almost 3 months since we left our stuff, I don't remember what I packed and what I stored. So if she puts it away, I might not even know that I even have it!
We have been quite busy the last 3 weeks. We had some exciting things happen. Let's see what I can remember. We had our 1st house guests about two weeks ago and our 2nd house guests this weekend. The first ones were just supposed to have dinner with us and then go home, but ended up staying the weekend...it was a long one for them and if you know our friends in Hanzhou, they can give you the whole story. It goes something like this, emergency room visit for stitches, train tickets all sold out to go home, and then ended with a case of food poisoning. We enjoyed having them and say again, anybody is more than welcome to use us for a place to stay! We look forward to visiting them and staying at their house, once the weather cools down.
We have realized some things here in Shanghai and everyday we learn a new and better way to do something. For example, taking a taxi, which is really not that expensive. About 5 bucks gets you about anywhere you need to go. The only problem is that the girls, namely Tally, HATE taxis. Okay, it is not the taxi that the hate, or the seat belts in them (that's right, they don't have them), but how they must act while inside them. The drivers are surrounded by a big plastic shield, that would make a perfect drum for a 1 year old right? She wants to bang and is quite frustrated that we are restraining her to our laps or beside us. Then she would love to crawl on the ground, which as mentioned previously, not going to happen because of all the funk. So we take a taxi to church it takes anywhere from 25 to 45 minutes, depending on traffic, and she cries a good part of the time. So we are finding that the subway system is not only really cheap, but our kids are actually happy most of the time and a millions times safer! I think the constant changing of people gives them a different focus. We hardly take taxis altogether anymore. We are walking much more and it may only take a few minutes longer if going across town. But we are much happier as the kids are quite happy!
Monday, August 6, 2007
Pics Alas....
Dancing in the big mall together. We love watching them play together. Adayla just loves Tally and Tally loves her big sister. Tally loves to just grab onto Adayla and hold on while Adayla walks, that is probably what was going on here....
Adayla's first day at preschool, she LOVES it!
So we STILL don't have our household goods and therefore only a few toys, so we went to Toys R Us to let them enjoy some. It looks like we were the only ones there, but there were about 50 other kids playing too.
Adayla Big Day - Her first day at her new school!
Hot, sweaty day the with girls seeing the sights of Shanghai. We are slowly getting used to the heat, okay, not really! We can't wait for September to come!
Having a Ayi to cook is great, we said she could cook whatever and we would eat it (at least try it.) Here is our fish for the night with eyeballs and all, thankfully she already took out his guts! The fish is actually quite tasty, but it has too many bones. So we told her we prefer not to eat it. At least we know by looking at this what it was. A few weeks ago, we had some Tofu and Chocolate pudding looking stuff....so Tim tries it. I hadn't yet. He thought it had a "interesting" taste and so he asked what it was. She replies ya xue....what? Ya as in duck as we are flapping our wings and she says yes. Xue....we didn't know. She started talking about Adayla and how she went to the doctor. She then squeezes her finger. Tim went to get his Pleco (his palm pilot dictionary) and confirmed the fear...Blood. Together Tim had just eaten Duck Blood! Note to ourselves....ask BEFORE eating! Tim says, "But I never would have tried it if I had asked." Morgan says, "DUH!"






